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(Serious) First Time Home Buyer’s Check List: GETTING STARTED

Set a budget

This seems simple, but you would be surprised how many people DON’T start with this step. The commitment of a home is scary but buying a home you can financially afford lessens that fear and potential long-term financial anxiety. If you bank with Bank of America, I suggest logging into their app and looking back at your financial planning tool. You can search expenses and splurges by month or category to help determine what you actually spend your money on. Another great app anyone can download (for free) is the Dave Ramsey EveryDollar App. You pre-plan every dollar you make and spend. You can add income as you earn it or plan in advance if you have a set salary. Then you add all of your recurring bills like utilities, insurances, and rent. Lastly, you budget your living and entertainment expenses using categories like groceries, dinners out, clothing, sporting and entertainment, holiday expenses, and savings. The idea is simple, you plan out every dollar you earn. Whatever is left over is budgeted into the savings or re-paying of debt categories. Once you clearly see where and how you spend your money, you can determine how much you have to put towards a mortgage and home maintenance.

Talk with a lender

A mortgage lender is a person or company who loans money towards the purchase of a home. Talking to a lender before house hunting gives you a realistic price range to focus on. You don’t want to waste you, or your Realtor’s time falling in love with a home that you can’t afford. Also, many sellers will not entertain a contract offer without having a fiance pre-approval letter. A lender is going to look at your income to debt ratio, credit report, and your housing budget. Not only will they tell you what loan amount you qualify for, but a good lender will take your budget into consideration and recommend a purchase price range to help you stay in your spending comfort zone. If you don’t qualify for a loan yet, a lender can give you advice on steps to take to improve your financial standings. Not all credit is treated equal, and no credit can be just as bad as “bad credit”.  Want to see where you stand financially in the home buying process? Click here to start the pre-approval process with Matt Gurnow of Home Team Equity.  Not only have I personally used Matt for my own home purchases, but I have sent many happy clients his way over the years.

Find a Realtor

Realtors are knowledgeable on market trends and real estate law; we are here to help and protect you. Whether you are buying your first home, a For Sale By Owner, or a bank owned property– having that support comes at no cost to you. SELLERS PAY REALTOR COMMISSIONS; even the buyer’s agent. Think of it as a finder’s fee for bringing the seller a buyer. It costs you nothing to take advantage of the help, services, convenience, and protection of a Realtor— so make sure you use one. If you don’t have a Realtor in mind, ask your friends if they can recommend one. Most Realtors work on referrals because home buying can be such a personal and emotional process. If you are in the Volusia County (Florida) area, I would be happy to help you personally! But I can also help you find a reliable Realtor anywhere in the WORLD. If you would like me to contact you about starting the home buying process or would like help being connected to a reliable and trustworthy Realtor, please CLICK HERE.

Make a wish list

After you find a Realtor and have a price range that fits your budget comfortably, it’s time to start dreaming. Make two lists side-by-side, label one side MUST HAVES and one side WISH LIST. Must haves are your non-negotiables, it’s very important to not confuse something that you REALLY WANT with something you HAVE to have. For example, if you have school age children and you are not willing to switch their schools, then school zones would be a Must Have item. If you REALLY WANT a pool, but would settle for a home without one– if it was nice enough, then a pool is a Wish List item and not a Must Have. Share your Must Haves and your Wish List with your Realtor. This will save precious time by weeding out homes that don’t fit your needs.

Preview Houses

Your Realtor will probably start the process off by sending you some digital listings via email. Most customer reports will include details about the property, an area map, and a few photos. It’s important to read the property descriptions, view the photos, and check the home’s location out on a map. Veto any properties that you know you are not interested in but be cautious. Don’t pass up seeing a home just because the description and pictures are underwhelming. Not all Realtors are world class photographers or writers. Sometimes photos are deceiving and descriptions are boring. If you don’t see or read something that turns you off to the property, take your Realtor’s advice and go see it if they encourage you to do so.

Visit Properties

Make a list of addresses that you would like to see with your agent. I suggest picking your top three potentials. A pretty home, that is fairly priced will probably not last long so schedule to see homes that you’re interested in as soon as possible. Remember, agents work nights and weekends but sometimes we need to schedule a showing around the sellers’ schedule as well. Your agent will then schedule appointments at the properties you want to see. And now you start the House Hunting stage! Check back for more details and tips on what to look for or expect when house hunting. You can also follow us on Facebook HERE.

 

 

Real Life, Wedding

9 Things I Wish I’d Known Before Planning A Bridal Shower

My baby sister is getting married and we are in the final stretches of wedding planning. I wasn’t surprised when she asked me to be her Matron of Honor, it was kind of an unspoken obligation AKA: she was stuck with me.

I knew I would have to plan a Bridal Shower, Bachelorette Party, and help keep her sane in her moments of wedding despair.

Here are just a few of the 100000 things I wish I had known before planning a Bridal Shower.

Get a guest list from the bride FIRST.

This seems like a “duh” statement. But you can’t plan location, food, or budget until you know who the bride wants to invite. Keep in mind that all women invited to the wedding should be invited to the shower. We are a very forward thinking family so our shower included an out-of-town uncle, Father of the Bride, a nephew, and eventually one groomsmen and the Groom himself.

Have an In-Person Bridesmaid Meeting

My sister has six bridesmaids. The feisty one, the chill one, the sensitive one, the people pleaser, the organizer, and the out of towner. Each of these women had spoken to the bride and had an idea of what she did and didn’t want.

After trying to text Pinterest pictures back and forth and planning via text messages we finally scheduled a meet up to draft the plan.

After days of texting and getting no where; within an hour we were about to draft a plan, divide responsibilities and have a glass of wine.

Don’t Give The Bride Too Many Details

Our beautiful bride was a micro-managing nightmare. She was so used to always being the do-er that she didn’t know how to sit back and let others spoil her.

Ask the bride what her MUST haves are and what her “I would be so upset if this happened” nightmare was. After that, do everything you can to make her must haves happen and that her nightmares don’t.

Set a Budget

Set a bridesmaid budget! As the Matron of Honor, I contacted each bridesmaid and spoke to them about what they could afford. My sister got engaged in November and planned the wedding for the upcoming March so they didn’t get much notice to plan or save.

Creating a budget allowed everyone to pitch in ideas without someone having to stand up and say “I really can’t afford that.” Once the budget was set, no one had to worry about what the next expense might be.

Here is a break down of our budget:

  • Dress: Whatever the bride decided. I mean, it is her wedding…
  • Shoes: Everyone find/use their own * This was later changed when we found a great sale and snagged all 6 pairs for $7 each!
  • Hair: $60
  • Make Up/Nails: Do ourselves
  • Bridal Shower: Chip in $60 for the venue/food
  • Bachelorette Party: Pay our own way and take turns buying the bride drinks

Share the Responsibilities

Next, we divided up the shower responsibilities.  The sisters and mother-of-the-bride covered decorations, invitations, and the ring game.

Bridesmaid #3 covered center pieces. We did Date Night Idea sticks as a center piece.

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Bridesmaid #4, brought a jug of wine for the guests to sign, signs for the ring game, recipe cards for the guests to leave the bride their favorite meal idea, and she hand wrote all of the signs for those of us who are handwriting challenged.

Bridesmaid #5 created a full mimosa bar! Twelve bottles of champagne, four different flavored juices, three flavors of vodka soaked caviar balls, fresh fruit, and beautiful gold decor stolen straight out of her living room. bar

 

Bridesmaid #6 baked all of the desserts! She brought serving and display dishes from home and created a Pinterest worthy spread in pink, white, and gold.

 

Wear Jeans and T-Shirt to Set Up

I opened a bottle of champagne to help ease my nerves and ended up wearing half the bottle. I was so hot and sweaty from decorating and rushing around. I wish I would have changed into my shower clothes right before the party started.

Bring Empty Totes

Between gifts, decorations, left over food, and set-up supplies, I definitely left with more things than I brought. I wish I had brought totes to pack everything up in at the end of the night. My mother had one large box with all of the decorations in it; that box ended up being our go-to junk holder. We hid the boxes under the tables during the shower.

Bring a Good Camera and Make the Bride Take Pictures with Everyone

This is something I learned from my baby shower. I was so overwhelmed that I didn’t want to take 15 minutes to take pictures with my guests. I still regret missing that photo opp with my grandmothers and niece.

Before the shower, find someone who has a good quality camera. This is not the time to rely on your Iphone. Lighting may be an issue and group shots from a distance can’t always be saved with the flash.

Take turns at the shower passing the camera around to the bridesmaids. Each will take different angles and moments but the whole shower will be photographed and no one had to give up the whole party to be the designated photographer.

Make an announcement during a food or cocktail break for everyone to make their way to the bride for photos. She will probably be sick of smiling but she will cherish those photos of her friends and family, and will appreciate that you made her take them.

Start Your Wedding Emergency Bag Now

I used a travel make up bag but you could just use a gallon ziplock instead. Even when you think you are prepared, you forget something. Start your emergency wedding kit NOW and make sure to bring it to the shower. As the Maid/Matron of Honor, it is your job to take care of the bride and her bridesmaids.

  • Tide-to-Go Pen
  • Clothes Pins
  • scissors
  • Fabric Tape (DO THIS. It’s a few dollars at Walmart and it can fix a broken hem to secure a shirt that keeps opening or slipping out-of-place.)
  • Hand Sanitizer
  • Bandaids
  • Extra phone chargers
  • Hair Brush
  • Hair Spray
  • Gum